Tuesday 18 August 2020

The Third Book The 21st Chapter - Flight of Faith

 

Flight of Faith

August 16, 2020

I feel most of us have an idea of what faith is, but have a difficult time visualizing and measuring faith. How can you attach a metric to something you can’t explain? How can you show someone else how to embrace faith? Faith is vital to living a full life. It needs to be part of our daily life, yet can be difficult to master. How do you start to feel the effect of faith in your life and how do you maintain it? Faith is required to experience miracles. How do you begin incorporating faith into your life? Faith provides the energy to arrive at life’s milestones on the journey of life.

On August 10th, I was given the gift of understanding faith through a new perspective lens. In the morning, I spoke to my mentor who encouraged me to do something new that day. As I thought about it, I had no idea what it would be. I was staying near Invermere BC, located in the beautiful mountains. My thoughts drifted to the power of flight and I began looking for local helicopter tours. I was drawn to the beautiful valley and mountains.

I had previously visited the valley for over 30 years during the summertime. I had always felt comfortable returning and spending time in the area. If you have visited the mountains and experienced the air, the water, and the peace of the valley, you may be familiar. If you have not visited the area, I will do my best to describe the location.

As I was looking for a powered flight tour, it didn’t feel right. Instead, I started looking at gliders that flew out of the airport. I remembered always being attracted to the gliders that would travel in and out of the airport. I watched in fascination, as they would be towed up in the air, remaining so high, circling the mountains long after the tow plane had left. It seemed so graceful and beautiful as their long gull-like white wings seemed to effortlessly climb into the sky. I had been curious for so many years and realized as I looked at the glider website, I wanted to experience it. The timing was right to experience the power of non-powered flight.

When I called to inquire about flight times, my thoughts drifted back to when I woke up that morning. As I woke, my eyes drifted to the mountains that were outside of my window. I knew I would experience something that day that was going to be unique and positively impact my life. At the time, I had no idea what exactly the experience would be other than the person I would meet would also be someone of significance. As the journey of life continues, have you ever met someone and knew they were a master of their craft? Whatever their passion, you could immediately identify their unique gift, and through that special gift, you felt positive energy. When Trevor answered my call, I sensed it was the beginning of such an experience.

Trevor had afternoon openings.  As he explained, the glider experience is more effective later in the day after the clouds build. When I arrived at the airport, I met Trevor. Trevor was sitting in the shade and immediately felt his quiet confidence. He was in his mid 60’s and had long flowing white hair. He was the image of a wise teacher sitting on the bench waiting for his next student to arrive. I believe authentic learning experiences occur when the ready student meets the waiting teacher. I remember sitting down beside him and feeling I was at the right place at the right time. I didn’t ask him how long it would take, what the cost would be or what was required; all I knew was that everything was in alignment.

The airport is located in the valley surrounded by majestic mountains ranging 5000 feet - 11,200 feet. There were scattered cumulus clouds with a light breeze and a temperature of 25 degrees Celsius. We watched as the tow plane took up a glider and the seemingly effortless process amazed me. As we moved our glider into position on the runway, I was filled with excitement.

Trevor explained getting into the glider and provided a safety demonstration. The instrument gauges were located directly behind Trevor’s seat. The tow plane returned to hook up our glider. We were quickly heading down the runway. I looked about and noticed the glider wings beginning to flex, almost like they were alive and wanted to embrace the invisible air. Suddenly, we were lifted into the air. I remember the sense of freedom and awe. Two hours passed in what seemed like seconds. I recall as we were still attached to the tow plane seeing a crystal clear mountain lake on the left and a large mountain on the right. I had said to Trevor “Wow this is amazing” and he replied, “ You haven’t seen anything yet, just wait for us to get higher.” I had no idea exactly what he meant, but I believed in Trevor’s words, as I knew my life was in the hands of a master of his craft.

As we ascended in slow right-hand reaching an altitude of 5200 feet, the command was given to release from the tow plane. I felt a little bump and then the sound of a light breeze coming over the cockpit’s clear bubble canopy. I noticed we were about halfway up a mountain and Trevor continued to circle in tight right turns. Then the miracle of an unseen powerful force presented itself. I remember again feeling the invisible power of the wind rushing up from the valley floor alongside the mountain. The force was pushing us higher and higher. Within minutes, we were looking down on the mountain peak, just moments before the mountain peak was looking down at us.

I began to view the area entirely differently than I had for over 30 years. Just 5 minutes into the air, I could see lake to the south that would have been a 30-minute drive. To the east, I could see the Kooteney Valley. I was seeing the contours of the valleys, lakes, rivers, and mountains all in a way I didn’t know existed.

Intuitively, Trevor could sense the wind updrafts and continued to pilot the glider higher and higher. We were nearly in the clouds when he said we would soon touch them and moments later we did. He changed course and headed west. We crossed the valley where we had taken off at and skipped across the air currents to a new line of mountains. At this height, he was able to maintain speed and lose minimal altitude, as he was able to fly into the updrafts. It was a sensation of skipping across the wind and clouds. I overwhelmed by emotion of the unseen force of God’s perfect creation. I could feel the power of the wind and see the impact of its energy. We were far higher than all the mountain peaks that were once higher than us. I could see glaciers, rivers, lakes and beauty that seemed dreamlike.

Trevor received notification that his next rider had cancelled. I felt a sense of awe, as I knew my journey was going to be extended. It seemed Trevor was relieved, as he could sense my enjoyment and we would be able to continue our travel. He pointed out a movie and commercial locations, historical mining camps, and shared information about the area. Without accepting the gentle nudge I received earlier in the morning, I wouldn’t have had such an amazing experience. I continued to feel the wind pushing us higher.

The experience allowed me to feel closer to God than I have had. I realized the unseen miracle of the power and was able feel it’s power. The teacher was there all along. I was finally ready to learn more about the miracles of God that He freely gives. As I thought about the experience and how it relates to the unseen force and concept of faith, the glider experience mimics the pattern of faith.

The glider needed a more significant force than it could generate by itself while it was sitting static on the runway. The glider required the initial energy of the tow plane to lift it into the air. At some point in time, we all will hit our rock bottom of despair and not know which way to turn or what action to take next. If you have hit rock bottom, there was likely someone or something that gave you the initial power to start moving and climbing out of despair. If you haven’t been there, it will happen. When it does, it is the first step into feeling the force of faith. There will be a force that will propel your forward, lift you and will allow your wings to connect with your power source.

Once the initial helping force is used, it will be time to let go and move forward without the force that lifted you. It will be a transitional time for you to take what you have learned and find a new source of power. The source of energy is hard to understand and even harder to see. You will need to believe in faith and yourself. Your unseen force will allow you to take flight within your faith. You will begin to feel and see life’s miracles as faith. Your faith will provide you with the power to move forward to and experience the miracles in your life.

It is truly is about the journey of your life and not the destination where true happiness and love exist. It is about the unplanned moments with family when you can grow your connection. It is unplanned moments when you meet a stranger that is a master in their craft. It is in the unplanned moments when faith will push you to higher levels of enlightenment and clarity of vision. Through trusting in the unseen force of faith is when you will be provided your vision of the next steps. You will see your next steps as clearly as looking at a Google Map destination. You will know exactly how to grow your faith, your love of family, and your career in a way that you could never see before.

Develop your process and faith that is in alignment. Keep it simple and repeat and repeat. Far too often in our personal and business lives, we make our initial plan of success complex, and then we become lost. We lose the power of the updrafts of our faith. We begin to sink lower into our depths of despair. We lose sight of what had been so evident at a higher level of our being and forget about the simple acts that had lifted us so high. Where do you feel your sense of faith is? Do you have your clarity of vision? Have you tapped into the unseen force of faith? Do you believe you, too, can feel the power of faith? If not, when are you going to start? What can you use as your tow plane to begin your growth?

Follow the nudges that God provides you, as there will be a Trevor waiting for you on a bench. He will be waiting to give you a gift that will help transform your life into something you never thought was possible. He will provide you with clarity that you never knew existed. He will allow you to look forward to creating your future successes instead of focusing on your past failures. All you have to do is to take the first step to grow your flight of faith. As you move forward, you will come around a corner, and your “Trevor” will be sitting in the shade waiting for you.

Friday 7 August 2020

The Third Book The 20th Chapter - Spiritual Nudges

 

The Nudge of the Holy Spirit

August 4, 2020

Have you ever had a strong, unexplainable, and undeniable moving feeling?  Perhaps it was a message you had resisted for quite some time, but realized you could no longer resist acknowledging. Oftentimes, the longer you ignore an intrinsic feeling, the louder the wake-up call. Awareness of such experiences can enhance our awareness of the blessing of subtle nudges.

I had an experience that I can only believe was divine intervention. It was during a period of my life that I was struggling with my personal relationships. I had experienced the loss of an intimate relationship and I was also struggling with the connection to my daughter. My experiences lead me to become bitter and jaded with the work I put into my personal development. I was not getting the results I felt I should have achieved.

In December 2016, I had traveled by myself to Belize. After a few days of vacation, I had wakened one morning so adamant that I would never embrace God into my life. I was angry at my life. I vowed not to spend another moment entertaining the idea of opening up to the concept of spirituality in my life. I remember being so passionate about the thought and also comforted by my decision.

Later in the day, I toured the island and noticed a sign advertising a small Internet chat shack 10 miles north of the main town center. Although 10 miles may not seem far, the motor transportation on the island was a golf cart. Between the golf cart and awful roads, it took about an hour to travel 10 miles. As I was getting closer, I had a sense of excitement about arriving at my destination. When I arrived, it was closed. I decided to continue traveling north and came upon a small oceanside bar. It had room for about 10 people and the location was breathtaking. Prior to my trip, folks had prepared me for the condition of some of the restaurants, but said if I saw other people, it would be a safe place to stay and visit.

Upon sitting down, I met Chris. He was the bar’s owner and a fellow Canadian. I had asked him how he became so fortunate to live in such a beautiful place, surrounded by beautiful people. It was dreamlike. He said it was easy, as simple as making the choice to do it. I looked at him with amazement, confusion and disbelief.  I thought he had to be crazy. Over time, I have learned he was right. Once we begin smashing down our self-imposed walls of fear, anything is possible.

As I pondered his concept, Lady Katherine and Stuart walked in. They were from North Carolina and reminiscent of southern Belle and regal gentleman. They had southern accents and a general old-fashioned sense of mystery surrounding them. After a few brief introductions, Lady Katherine could not contain herself. She apologized by saying “I am sorry and please do not think I am crazy, but I have this loud voice in my head that I have to share this idea with you.” Of course, I was immediately curious and open to what she was going to say. I asked her to share her thoughts. She continued, “The decision you made this morning to turn your back on God, you cannot do this. He has big plans for you, and you need to embrace him in your life. Not only does your life depend on it, but others as well.” I was amazed that she didn’t know me from the sand on the beach but specifically knew about my recent experience.

I had been ignoring and pushing away God for years. In that moment, I no longer could. The energy I needed to ignore was greater than it was to submit to the idea I was wrong that morning. In that moment, it was like a spiritual sludge hammer forcing me to accept my place in this life. I have learned that miracles come when you least expect them. Through my father, I have also learned that the pace of wonders is on God’s time and not our own.

In my experience with Lady Katherine, I was moved and a seed began to grow. I could no longer ignore the calling of the spirit. In March of 2017, I was able to attend a John Maxwell training session in Orlando, Florida. Roughly halfway through the course, I had the opportunity to sit down beside Mark and Judy. I did not realize at the time, the miracle that just occurred. Mark is a retired pastor was there to become certified in coaching. I ended up becoming his first client.

Initially, the coaching was corporate-based. Over time, it evolved into spiritual. I realized the importance of having a life that is in balance. The seed that Lady Katherine had planted eventually made me realize what I lacked in my spiritual development. If you have hit rock bottom before and embraced Christ, you may relate to another experience in my life. In July 2019, my career had hit rock bottom, bills were piling up, and I had lost hope. I remember being overcome by anger and realized I had to change. I myself was the common root problem in my life’s equation. In my next meeting with Mark, I let him know I could no longer pay him. I wished him best of luck, but I needed to go on alone without his coaching. He suggested he would wave the session fees as he believed in me and we still had work to do. I was overcome by emotion and taken back by his willingness to help me. I felt so unworthy and was in such a low period in my life. 

As the months passed, Mark continued working with me. In November, I officially took my first step. It was the hardest first step that I have ever made. It had taken nearly 3 years from the moment I declared a “hard no” to when Lady Katherine came into my life. When you are hit over the head, embrace the gift, but don’t worry about the speed of the gift or have any expectations. Life is about the journey and not the destination. In those 3 years, I had grown and become ready for the gentle nudges I now embrace.

It is essential to remember that all of this is based on free will and free will is required for real-life to be experienced. Through free will and gentle nudges, you have to prepare yourself to acknowledge the gentle nudges and allow the door to open. The person meant to receive your gift may not be there. You have to be okay with feeling pain and realize that the moment may not be immediate. You may feel the frustration of free will. You have to be strong enough to walk away and take comfort; you did follow the spiritual nudge. In most cases, the miracle you were sent to deliver will happen, and it is one of the most satisfying experiences you will have.

Recently, I decided I wanted to attend a new church. On the morning prior to attending, I had a feeling that I needed to travel to Banff overnight. In doing so, I had the incredible experience of getting to know someone very deeply. We had an experience that will forever connect us. It was biblical in nature and provided mutual life-changing comfort. Following your gentle nudges allows you to experience miracles and receive beautiful gifts.

I was given the gifts of several valuable life-changing experiences. My resort had a beautiful rooftop hot tub. When I woke up on Sunday morning, I felt a need to be there when it opened, as someone needed a message. When I arrived, before the sun came over the mountains, I was moved to pray in the direction the sun was rising. As I finished praying, and the sun had crested the mountains, I was overcome by deep emotion. I knew that the person to whom I was going to deliver a message would arrive soon. Moments later, a young father and his 5-year-old son and 3-year-old daughter arrived.

As I knew it was my time to leave, I briefly spoke to the father. I shared with him the importance of enjoying the time with his kids as time passes so quickly. I also shared that as his daughter grows older, their relationship will change forever, so to enjoy his time with her while she is a little girl. He said he was working on it and thanked me for my advice. When I walked away, I felt the gentle nudge of our meeting and how it changed his life forever. I knew his marriage was saved and would reach a new level. He would now have a better relationship and a deeper connection with his children. As I entered the elevator to return to my room, I felt the power of a miracle. I was in awe of the gratefulness of being able to be a part of God’s plan and providing value to which started with that gentle nudge.

I almost always ignored my gentle nudges and felt they didn’t mean anything. The energy we give and the energy we take has a lasting impact on others as well as ourselves. Most of the time, we will never know what or how profound that impact is. The importance of being kind to everyone, including ourselves, is vital. We may never know how we may scar a person forever with our words and we will be held accountable for those actions.

Are you currently ignoring something in your life? How long are you going to ignore it? How big of a spiritual hammer do you need? Why are you fighting it? Once you embrace it, you will feel so much peace with the experiences of the gentle nudges. Once you invite Christ into your life, you will feel his unconditional love. Even though you may have denied him for years, there is no retribution but kindness and joy that your journey has returned you home.