The 32nd Chapter - Find Your Clarity

Oct 31/16

A moment of reflection to share.  It all ties into when you start making the small choices that align up with what you truly want.  It is almost magical that you will start to have more clarity - you will start feeling and knowing what your next steps need to be.  If these next steps are in alignment of what you truly want you should be starting to feel like your gaining energy from these choices or moments of clarity.

The next step will be to have the strength to make these changes.  In general we are typically comfortable in our current reality and although we may not be completely happy with ourselves or our current status quo.  We will remain there like the frog in the slowly warming water.  We know what to expect and that will provide us with a sense of stability of a known future.  However if your feeling a sense of being unsettled it is likely you might need to make some changes.  These changes can be small ones, like going for a walk or call a friend and share some new positive ideas or thoughts.  Or it might be a lot bigger like changing a relationship or even maybe a job or start a new career.

When you take a moment to think and feel you will know what choices you have to make.  Also when you decide to make a change to increase the value of how you feel in life.  Remember this journey of life is now new to you and you will make mistakes and you will want to go back to the before period.  However if you know your making the correct choices stay on this path of the new journey.

So specifically my reflection is - over the past year or so, I have made a few choices I knew and now know were not the correct ones for me.  As time went on of me making the incorrect choices I noticed some of my close friends drifted away and I did not spend as much time with family as I should have.  On a deeper level, over time, I slowly lost my clarity of who I am and what I truly wanted to accomplish in life.  It was as if I was lost in a cloud or was observing someone else's life and not my own.  My passion and uniqueness was discounted over that year by myself and my biggest learning from that year was not to allow others alter my own person of being.  Allowing my confidence to slip away to the put of was just left with going through the action of life and not truly living life.

If you are starting to feel this way or you can relate to some of this chapter and you are searching for some people and clarity.  I hope these words have provided some comfort and a start of how to tangible way to make some changes in your life.  Like the weight loss programs I wrote about earlier, start looking deeper into the whys of what is not working for you.  Once you have determined the why's you will be able to identify where you need to go.  It shouldn't matter what your spiritual or religious beliefs are, you are indeed allowed to feel joy in your life and that your quest is up to you to fill the the rest of the pages.

You have all the answers you need inside of you for you - the key is to find tools, reading, other positive people to talk to provide ways for you to unlock your next steps.  All of these resources come to you when you need them and the true sources of this gift,  will give it to you freely and as much as you need.  You will also start to have the sense the new choices you are making are the correct ones for you.

Start slowly with this exercise and only make decisions when you know your ready.  With anything you practice it will become easier and quicker to receive the clarity you are looking for.

Enjoy the beginnings of the new positive feelings of your hard work you have created.