The Fifth Chapter - Learning From Your Past Failed Relationships

Oct 9/2015

The pain of past failed relationships and the hurtful words used against you might make it difficult to move forward....There might be a tendency to be always be looking backwards and trying to re-create the good times had....Which is totally impossible...(well a disclaimer....it could happen to reignite a failed past relationship and truly becoming healthy....the reality is that is very unlikely) in the currently reality we live in....A tangible tool to help you move forward can be use these past failed experiences  as a fuel to ignite your internal emotional motor (your mind) to move forward.... Like the tree losing it's leaves freely we have to also let the past go freely and move out the paralyzing cycle of regret....( by truly doing this it allows us to center ourselves and live a life in nature in perfect balance).... Picture that emotional pain and use that energy to create an environment that will allow you to move forward.... Some may perceive this as a negative tactic, but as long as you can move forward, and start to heal it is worth the cost of that little moment (time in your life) of negative energy fuel....Be mindful of not allowing yourself to stay in a negative mindset ....as once you know you are going start to slowly leave all the negative behind and turn over your fuel to one of positive energy.... Allow karma and the wrong projected or done to you alone with the person that you feel has doing the wrong to you.....Let them carry that burden as it is only theirs alone to carry it as they have created the negative energy to you......To help determine what belongs to you or them....take a moment and feel and you will find the truth....be mindful if is your responsibility to take back both positive and negative energy you have spent in the past failed relationship....as this will enable you to center yourself once more....perfect harmony.....Spending time and energy to correct their wrong is a waste of your time and will slow down your healing process and slow down the breaking of the cycle of looking backwards......